I really hope this topic gets explored more by other members. I know it has long been a mental process of just staying silent and not bringing up sexual desires.
Most of this begins when you are young and are teased by friends about any ideas you have that aren't in the typical range of accepted areas. But the thing to remember is there really are no walls or boundaries in feelings. Talking about fears and embarrassments is known to be therapeutic and has also turned culture to be more in line with those desires. But if nobody speaks up, then nobody knows there is an area that needs to be opened up.

Hopefully more will discuss their fear and embarrassments.