Unknowing but there
I have no idea if this is the right topic to start this off.
But one thing I have as far as experience is the surprise I had when realizing, females generally like to be controlled in bed. (Now I know there are also many variations of this)
I grew up in a Christian family, very educated on the Bible and religions in general, so sex was somewhat taboo. I remember thnking it was just "something good that will happen when I get older". At first I would see little bits of information about kink sex or what looked like rough sex, and thought, oh no!. I thought that was for the extreme people, and that missionary style was the most desirable. Was I in for a surprise, lol.
Over time I noticed that most girls prefer to be submissive, and many want to be tied up and even spanked. Now granted in the world of BDSM, this is mild, but I'm more focused on how our culture keeps this a secret. Not sure why though. I feel like the new generations growing up could use a set of guidelines. And if I would have known this at a younger age, I probably could have advanced at pleasing many females earlier in life.
Now granted, this could always be taken too far, but I mean in a sense of loving and caring being involved with the brute force that females tend to crave from a man.
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