To draw conclusions on a particular aspect, a preliminary collection of information is necessary.
To do this, members of the club share their real sexual experiences - everything from the beginning of the sexual activity to the present moment. The more people share their experiences, the bigger and clearer the picture of sex inherent in the modern world.

I have no idea if this is the right topic to start this off.

But one thing I have as far as experience is the surprise I had when realizing, females generally like to be controlled in bed. (Now I know there are also many variations of this)

I grew up in a Christian family, very educated on the Bible and religions in general, so sex was somewhat taboo. I remember thnking it was just "something good that will happen when I get older". At first I would see little bits of information about kink sex or what looked like rough sex, and thought, oh no!. I thought that was for the extreme people, and that missionary style was the most desirable. Was I in for a surprise, lol.

Over time I noticed that most girls prefer to be submissive, and many want to be tied up and even spanked. Now granted in the world of BDSM, this is mild, but I'm more focused on how our culture keeps this a secret. Not sure why though. I feel like the new generations growing up could use a set of guidelines. And if I would have known this at a younger age, I probably could have advanced at pleasing many females earlier in life.

Now granted, this could always be taken too far, but I mean in a sense of loving and caring being involved with the brute force that females tend to crave from a man.

I faced the same problem - lack of information in time.

When I had already started my sex life, I desperately searched the Internet for information (I was still lucky that there was already an Internet at my age) - how to do oral sex, how to have "proper" sex, how to please a man, etc.
Unfortunately, I have not been able to find structured information. I had to collect everything bit by bit.

At the same time, people from my environment constantly made me remarks that I dress "like a prostitute," that my behavior is too loose, I can't express myself like that, and so on. It all madly strained and resented me - why can't I do what I want, why do I need to follow the instructions of these flawed people (these people looked miserable)?

I think it was only because of my "spirit of contradiction" that I was able to get out of all this "cultural shit".

You mention the issue of people (family) claiming you were dressing like a slut.

I feel like this is a two sided issue.

Personally, I feel a woman should be able to wear what she wants.

The reality is, in certain cases, a woman could be in danger if she dresses too sexually exposed. This is sad. I really feel this is the part that should tell everyone that we need to improve as humans.
We know the cause, men that cant seem to control themselves, either by a mental disorder, desperation, or under the influence of a drug or alcohol.
I feel like this is our excuse for being lazy as a society.

This is not how things should be.

Julia should be able to walk down the entire public beach nude, and feel safe. She should be able to wear something revealing and not be harassed.
As men and humans, don't we all imagine some fantasy just as I describe? And yet we COULD make the world closer to our fantasy, yet we do not.

So when I hear people criticizing someone for looking like a slut or prostitute, I cringe. That look is exactly what men like to see, and yet we(men) say bad things about it. It's a total contradiction.

I an only guess that females berate how another female dresses because of jealousy, but I have no insight into that.

I can say that I always worn clothes with mind - no mini dress at night alone in dark lane, business suit on business meeting, etc. I'm sure sometimes people are just jealous to see beautiful woman with good body shape and sexy cloth

About danger.

Yes, this is subject to keep in mind.

I'm sure that woman must be strong and be able to protect herself physically.