In the modern world, there is an illusion of having knowledge about sex in everything. An endless amount of porn photos and video content, articles about sex, sex toys, etc. support this illusion.

Unfortunately, until now there is a lack of understanding of the purpose of sex, its place in human life, ideas about the rules and ethics of sex.

These are all the questions that are discussed in the Theory of Sex club in order to find answers related to real reality.

I agree with there being an "illusion". This may come from the current and past method of selfish gratification. Long ago I watched an HBO series called "Real Sex", and was first introduced to the idea of prolonging sex to allow both people to feel satisfaction. That was 1991 (I think), and ever since then I have extended the length of time that I can last. This way I can spend time with her needs and making her come to orgasm over and over.

I feel like as a society, it's not looked at in this manner, it's viewed as how fast can I get myself satisfaction. The numerous videos and porn allow for this. Although I do think having the enormous amount of porn can be very useful. Methods, new kinks, and even verifying if something is possible, can all come from porn.

From a man's point of view, I would really like to know what are many of the female desires and thoughts, and see if any are universal among females, and even in nature.

Yes, modern pornography has moved into the "Olympic Games" section - bigger, fatter, faster, etc.
But such "competitions" have nothing to do with sex, except for the external form.
Sex begins with a thought, a look, an intention, and not with "anal pounding", and ends not with ejaculation, but with bringing the body and mind of BOTH partners into a calm state. Sex is much longer and wider, then modern people think.

Regarding the desires of men and women. This is an interesting question that we, the members of the Theory of Sex club, have to find out through the Sex Passport. People always want what is missing. And this is determined by many factors - culture, social status, lifestyle, age, sexual experience, etc.