Bondage and the fear of control
2023-01-13 12:42:15 #1 
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01-09-2023
Default Bondage and the fear of control

I feel like no good fetish discussion should go without bringing up Bondage.

There are many levels to using bondage during sex. I wanted my topic to fall short of BDSM, as that can be an entire category on it's own.

Bondage, the way I am describing it, can be anything from wrapping sheets lightly around a womens wrists to simulate bondage, and then all the way to purchasing special leather wrist, ankle restraints and collars.

When I was young, I used to think of bondage as a taboo, which may be a discussion on it's own. But as I have been with more and more women, I find that women actually prefer to be bound during sex.

I have speculated they prefer to be submissive, and this may be true, but there seems to be something more. Something deeper, like feeling pleasure from pleasing the man?

It would be good to hear what females think on this topic. Even what men think based on their experience.