Viewing a blog post by Eskorpius about seduction, it prompted me to write this forum post about human " Attraction". Because in order to break down what "seduction" is, we need to understand the basics of human attraction.

This is an area of psychology and biology that deserves a lot more study and research than is currently has. We know some things, like females and males are attracted to each other (typically), and that there are some universal rules of what causes this attraction. Such as youthful appearance, low body fat, lack of disease in appearance.

We also understand there is a basic courting method where the female may give slight clues she is looking for a mate and the males tend to need to make the bold move to appeal to the female. Maybe this is traditional, maybe it was just decided through time in history.

As human cultures grew more complex, there was a need for control within the groups of civilizations. It seems that it was decided that limits needed to be set on sexual behavior between humans.
This seems to be the starting point of "Seduction". It was made more difficult to get the opposite sex for intercourse due to these new rules. The rules made Seduction become a tool that could be used if you were one of these exceptionally "universally" attractive people. Over time it seems that seduction has become a sexual stimulant in itself. Maybe because the humans that are considered "unattractive", can still use seduction for fictional stories in their minds.

It would be good to discuss "Attraction" in more detail. A better understand may help open sex up to society's. Or at least give people an idea of where they stand in the hierarchy of visual appearance. It seems that sex is tied directly to this.

Attraction between men and women is a complex process that involves physiological, social, and psychological factors.

On a physical level, people may be attracted to each other based on aspects such as appearance, scent, voice, and other physical attributes. However, attractiveness is not limited to physical characteristics, and many other factors can play a role.

Social factors can also play a role in attraction between men and women. Cultural and societal expectations, norms, and stereotypes about what is considered attractive can influence how people perceive each other. In addition, the context and circumstances in which people meet can influence attraction.

At the psychological level, attraction between people can be caused by similarities in their interests, values, and personality traits. In addition, psychological compatibility, mutual understanding, shared interests, and respect for each other are important factors in attraction. These factors can strengthen the bond between partners and create a sense of safety, confidence, and attachment.

Moreover, there is also a theory that our choice of partners may be linked to our genetics. Some studies show that people prefer partners with different genetic information, which may promote healthier offspring.

However, no matter how we explain attraction, its origins still remain a mystery. Each person is unique, and what attracts one person may not attract another. However, understanding the basic factors of attraction can help people better understand themselves and their relationships with others.

The major factors of attraction between a man and a woman can include physical attractiveness, social status, intellectual abilities, sense of humor, psychological compatibility, and many other factors.

Physical attractiveness is one of the most obvious and widely studied factors of attraction. It can include various aspects such as facial symmetry, body proportions, healthy appearance, and attractive scent. However, it is important to note that beauty and attractiveness can be subjective concepts, and what one person finds attractive may not be attractive to another.

Social status and intellectual abilities can also influence attraction. For example, many people may be attracted to partners with high social status or education.

Sense of humor can also play an important role in attraction. People may find partners attractive who can make them laugh and lift their mood.

Finally, psychological compatibility can be one of the most important factors of attraction. People may be attracted to partners who complement their personality and share common interests and values.

Of course, every person is unique, and what may attract one person may not attract another. However, understanding the major factors of attraction can help people better understand themselves and their relationships with other people.