I have never been one to make a lot of sounds during sex or orgasm, but I have heard this is not desirable.

Some women have expressed to me that they prefer to hear me make sounds to show that they are pleasing me. I don't have any objection, I just thought maybe it would be a distraction.

I know some girls moan excessively, and in different amounts.

I would like to know which people on here know they are loud when they orgasm.

I will divide my article into parts so that it is easier to navigate through it

----- Generally -----

In my opinion, the presence of sounds during sex is very positive!
The sounds of sex, like music, allow you to better "flow" into having sex.
I used to make almost no sounds during sex, only the orgasm was distinguished by the soundtrack (very bright)

----- Getting rid of extraneous thoughts -----

In the process of gaining experience in shooting adult content, I noticed that making sounds of pleasure during sex allows you to get stronger pleasure from the whole process of sex - the mind is more easily involved in the physiological process, extraneous thoughts go away more easily and do not interfere with concentrating on sex.

----- About the naturalness of sounds -----

I allow imitated sounds at the beginning of sex to start consciousness in the "right direction" - it's like a mantra that tunes in to a certain state.
But then the sounds made should be a reflection of the REAL state of sex. Simulation of pleasure will not lead to pleasure.
Therefore, if you didn’t manage to tune in to sex, then “you shouldn’t torture a dead hamster.”

----- About embarrassment -----

I think that many people are just embarrassed to make sounds during sex (as I once was a long time ago).
The embarrassment is expressed in the following way:
* And how will the partner perceive it?
* what will the neighbors think (if they hear)?
* What will I look like?
* etc.

I am sure that embarrassment to make sounds is one of the "sexual clamps" that does not allow you to be liberated in sex and begin to enjoy it during the entire process of sex, and not just at the moment of orgasm.

----- About my perception of sounds during sex -----

For example, I really like hearing sounds from my partner. So I see and understand that he likes to have sex with me, which means he enjoys the whole process. And it doesn't matter here that I already know that he likes sex with me, I want to see and hear it.
All this together, in turn, gives me even more pleasure from sex, as I really like to give sexual pleasure to my partner.

----- About my sounds during orgasm -----

In my case, the whole neighborhood knows that I'm getting an orgasm))) It's really very loud and passionate. Unfortunately, sometimes I have to hold back a lot for a number of reasons related to the place of having sex

----- Your opinion -----

So, I managed to describe my opinion and give some reasons why the presence of sounds during sex is good and should not be embarrassed.

Now I'd like to hear other people's opinions and experiences.
Perhaps you are greatly distracted by sounds (your own, partner) or vice versa, turn you on even more. You are embarrassed to make sounds or nothing bothers you and you make / do not make sounds.

Please share! Express your opinion! We need it!

I like that you talk about the embarrassment of being loud or making any sort of noise.

I also think that could be a lot of reasons why people stay silent during an orgasm. I too agree that letting it all out is much more beneficial to the body and mental state of the orgasm.

This is something I tell the girls, I want them to let it all out, do not be afraid. Scream, convulse, squirt, whatever it takes to let the climax reach the full intensity. That is what I prefer.

Luckily I live out in the country, so any sex could be performed outside and it would not disturb neighbors.

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Apparently, with him you will be able to open up sexually and get a special sexual pleasure (perhaps that you have not received yet)

Interesting post.
To answer the opening question
"Do the sounds make you more aroused?" I would say yes.

If I'm anywhere and I hear fucking noises, I'm happy because then I know that somewhere, nearby people are having a great time.

I'm also distracted by what I'm doing and thinking, who could it be, what are they doing, are there more than two people and so on. That makes me horny then.

Personally, I'm usually the silent fucker.
That comes perhaps from the youth, since one did not want to bother anyone with loud sound.
It's annoying when you're watching TV with two I(or more) persons shaking next to you, but there's also loud moaning!

It doesn't matter me and doesn't make me extra horny if my fuck partner is loud.

I hope my english is understandable.

Best regards
Chrischi

Thank you very much for your feedback, Chrischi!

Chrischi, I agree. Hearing others making sounds during sex, would make me curious to see what they are doing.

1. For many reasons, maybe they have a new sex position that you have not seen before.
2. If they have many partners then learning their techniques and the thrill of seeing many.

Good points that you make.

It would be nice if there was more freedom to just go open their door and be free to watch, similar to what Julia is giving us in her video research challenges. Like the blowjob challenge.

I think the detractor would be if the noises and sounds were overdone, fake, and you could tell. The fake sounds don't do anything for me.
Although to describe the counterpoint, I understand why someone might fake sounds. If they really like the other person and feel that they need to be loud in order to impress the other one. Which would make another reason that this forum is so important. Learning this and having this kind of open communication is vital.